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Margaret Dibben: She writes your wrongs

Margaret Dibben: She writes your wrongs



Last August our mother had a heart attack and my sister rushed back from her home in China. While she was in England, her fiancé, still in China, also had a heart attack and died. They were due to marry last December. Our mother survived and, while my sister returned to China, I cancelled their wedding bookings.

They had paid a £2,600 deposit to the Athelhampton hotel, out of a total £6,500, but the hotel refuses to return this, saying it was unable to find a substitute booking between August and December.

DV, Wimborne, Dorset

This is difficult. Initially, I was appalled that the hotel should refuse to refund the deposit. But the contract clearly stated that it was non-refundable. The hotel's catering manager says that few couples organise a wedding within four months, which is why he could not find a replacement.

However tragic the circumstances, it is not the hotel's responsibility to compensate for your loss, although another hotel might have agreed. Pursuing the hotel as your family has done did not help your case. It is time to put this element of the tragedy behind you.

Legal threat for a wrong connection

I had a domestic telephone contract with Caudwell which I cancelled in autumn 2004. It then signed me up to a business account without my permission. I told Caudwell about this, but in early 2005 I started receiving recorded telephone messages to contact.....continued below

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it. In August I was told that legal proceedings would take place. Since November, I have been receiving a bill every month and Caudwell now says I owe £109.

KW, Birmingham

All our fault, says Caudwell. The debt for an account you never requested was sent to the collection department by mistake and stayed there. Caudwell has removed it and sent you £50 compensation with a bunch a flowers.

Currency conversion played havoc with my budget

I hired a car from Budget in the UK to drive in the Republic of Ireland. My credit card statement showed that I had been charged in sterling and not euros converted to sterling by the bank. Budget had used an inferior rate, adding some £10 to my bill. I have emailed Budget three times about this without response.

PH, London

Everyone shopping abroad should be aware of this pitfall. Retailers can offer customers the choice of paying in the local currency or in sterling. The disadvantage of paying in sterling overseas is that you can get a worse exchange rate. Visa's rules say retailers must offer the choice before the transaction takes place and, if customers pick sterling, the receipt must show the exchange rate and any fees. You can kick up a fuss if this does not happen.

Budget believes its exchange rates are in line with the industry and it is making sure that all staff understand they must allow customers to choose. It now lets customers pre-pay in sterling online so you can avoid currency conversion costs.

Trapped between a conman and a bank

We moved house and had our mail redirected for 15 months. Immediately afterwards, there were five attempts to open bank accounts and credit cards in our name. None was successful, but we asked the credit reference agency, Experian, to put a marker against our names.

Earlier this year, we tried to remortgage with Bank of Scotland. It saw the markers and asked for the password. I can't provide this as I never set one up, but Bank of Scotland won't budge.

LM, Amersham, Bucks

Bank of Scotland says it tried to verify your identification through your solicitor and a passport check but failed. It can't explain why. Cifas, the fraud prevention service, says you provided a password two years ago when the conman tried to open an Argos storecard. Cifas offered a prompt to jog your memory, which worked but too late for the cheap mortgage deal, which cost £1,200 less than the one you have now.

A time lock that has cost us thousands

We bought a joint life policy with Windsor Life in 1986. Two years later, the premiums rose from £54 a month to £68. In 2003, they increased to £168. We surrendered the policy and Windsor Life sent us £228. We had paid £11,000 in premiums. I complained to the Financial Ombudsman Service, who said that because six years had elapsed since we knew that premiums would rise, the case is time barred. How can they time bar us when we were not aware that we had anything to complain about?

DP, Malaga

Your complaint was investigated at the first level by an adjudicator in the ombudsman's office. I asked for an ombudsman's assessment. She too concluded that you should have realised that premiums could rise when they first went up, albeit modestly, and it is now too late to complain.

But she did pick up another problem that is within time limits. Windsor Life failed to review the policy when your wife reached 70 in 2001. The adjudicator is now investigating this, along with your complaint about the surrender value.

· Email Margaret Dibben at money.writes@observer.co.uk or write to Margaret Dibben, Money Writes, The Observer, 3-7 Herbal Hill, London EC1R 5EJ and include a telephone number. Do not enclose SAEs or original documents. Letters are selected for publication and we cannot give personal replies. The newspaper accepts no legal responsibility for advice.

Guardian Unlimited © Guardian Newspapers Limited 2006

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