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2) Start people watching. Begin noticing what you think looks nice and pay attention to how a woman's body moves. Realise that not everyone looks great no matter what their size. Someone tall and slim may walk with stooped shoulders, or someone with more feminine curves than you may not look as elegant. Realise that your body isn't as bad as you think.
3) Look at yourself and get to know yourself. You may not look the same as you did 10 years before however you should learn to accept that change is beautiful. Age beautifully and keep the confidence.
4) Take a camera shopping with you and when you are trying on different clothes take a picture of yourself. Before rushing into a purchase go and have a coffee, look at the picture and have a think about whether you feel good about the way you look. Don't take it home and beat yourself up because it doesn't fit properly. Trust yourself when clothes shopping.
5) Talk to friends about what suits you and when out shopping, talk to the sales assistants. Get some style advice from the experts in the store and explain your shape... i.e. I am top heavy, what will suite me best? Ensure you dress for your shape and stick to your budget.