Why hasn't my dad been in touch with me?

Why hasn't my dad been in touch with me?

Dear Lyn
I lost my dad 4 years ago and have been to a few spiriulist meetings over the four years but I just don't seem to be able to move on with my life. Not one day goes by when I just sit and wonder where he is what he is doing. Why, why, why has he not been in touch with me to even let me know he is o.k. even? We had the closest relationship a daughter and dad could have and in some ways it really caused some rifts between my mother and me.

I still now, even all this time, look at the phone when it rings cos he phond me about 10 times a day so I am still looking at that phone. I know I need to move on but I just can't. I miss him desperatly, please, please help me.
Thank you
Sue

Are you saying that in four years of visiting Spiritualist churches you've not received a message from your Dad - or have you just gone occasionally to clairvoyant meetings in that time? People who are now in the realms of light have a different perspective on earthly life. Your Dad may be actually wanting you to have contacted a medium through Tiscali so that you get the best possible advice.

A caring man, he only ever wanted the best for you and he is still of the same mind. I'm being given the colour red as important - and a car I'm asked to remind you of happy times - and it seems there's a memory of a special day out. I'm shown coaches and buses and a lot of people rushing around. Have you or your Mum redone the kitchen - did he do the cupboard doors? I'm also being shown shrubs and flowers with a tree - is this where you and he were happy? He also seems to take an interest in your clothes! I hope that you feel better and you'll let me know.

Meanwhile, go to a Spiritualist church and speak to a medium there, I'm sure you'll get a contact.

May you feel loved and blessed.
Lyn

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