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Is his mother able to help us?
Dear Lyn My partner and I have broken up after 18 years and we are both very unhappy and still have deep feelings for each other but Gerard is being lead astray by others and listening to other peoples opinions, including that of his brother.
His mother who is no longer with us always worried about Gerard as he was her youngest child. Is she able to help us and heal our hearts and direct us what to do before all is too late?
Mary
Breaking up after many years as a partnership is always very difficult. Also it often feels worse when loved ones such as Gerard's mother are no longer around on the earth plane to support us. However, as you obviously suspect, they are able to receive our loving thoughts and send us theirs.
Gerard's mother is obviously concerned for his welfare as ever and would be offering prayers for his protection from negative influences, and you can also add yours to hers.
I feel that your situation is not set in stone and that improvements may occur in both your thought processes. I'm prompted to mention the counselling organisation 'Relate' for couples who would benefit from mediation. Why not see if visiting an independent relationship counsellor would be agreeable for Gerard and yourself. I am told to tell you that healing thoughts are being sent to everyone, as the family 'are in turmoil' and the whole situation needs remedying.
May you receive the blessings of love and comfort.
Lyn
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