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My big brother died, do you have a message from him?
Dear Lyn
I desperatly need your help. I'm a 17 years old girl who lost my big brother a year ago. Do you know anything about where he is now? And if you can contact dead people, could you please tell him that I love him? I never got the chance to tell how much he meant to me, and now it's to late. I really need to know where he is now, and if he's alright. I miss him so much, and I can't go on without him.
His name was Kristian, and he was 20 years old last year, he died of leukaemia.
Love from Ingvild, Norway
It really is never too late to let people know you love them. The prayers and thoughts that you send out in your brother's direction are picked up and received by him - so he knows how you feel. Although he was so ill, he's now restored in the spirit to full health.
He shows me a landscape to let you know where he is. There are big hills and lakes - and I'm shown a strange mixture of sunny green fields and icy sheets with snow on the hills. I see a smiling face and hear a happy laugh. I see a woollen hat being pulled off your head as a memory of past fun. Be assured that all is well and that you can still tell him anything you want. Meanwhile, I have done as you request and sent your love on your behalf.
Many blessings.
Lyn
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