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Do you have a message from my son who was murdered?
Dear Lyn
My son was brutally murdered 11 months ago. I have been so depressed, when my mother died I could feel her presence and pick up the signs...but with my son, nothing. I just want some sort of sign, that he is ok. I used to believe in the afterlife, but now I am having my doubts. Do you know if he has any messages for me? I want to have contact with him so badly but can't seem to find him, this makes the grief even worse, can you help me?
Love and Light
Monica
Because you've naturally felt so down and miserable - most understandably in your said circumstances - spiritual input from the realms of light is made very difficult. Your son is living on in a much finer environment than this earthly atmosphere, so his loving thoughts of you are not getting through to you, but he is sending love to you. Thanks for the flowers (to everyone) and he wants you to remember 'happy days'. We don't need to find our loved ones on the other side as they themselves are not lost. They know where they are on their onward journey - the loss is with us in the physical sense. Psalm 23, The Lord is my shepherd, really says it all. Each one of us is under that shelter whether here or in heaven - no one is lost.
May God bless and comfort you.
Lyn
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