I lost my partner when I was 3 months pregnant

I lost my partner when I was 3 months pregnant

Dear Lyn
My partner Marc died suddenly on Christmas Day 2001 when I was three months pregnant. I went on to have my son in July 2002 and he is a little treasure. It is now 3 years on and I still think of Marc each day and wonder if he is up there looking down on his little boy and loves him as much as I do. I wonder how he thinks about me now and whether he still loves me as he always did.

I have thought about going to a Spiritualist Church but I am not entirely sure this will help. I think that Marc came to me three times after he died but I haven't felt him for a long time now. I want to know if he is happy and hope that he knows how I still feel for him.
Thank you

You're very blessed to have your child who must be a great source of happiness in your sorrow. I'm sure your partner is delighted that you have him to care for - a part of him in the physical sense, including personality of course - so that you weren't left feeling entirely alone after his passing.

Do go to a Spiritualist church - they are over and above every other consideration dedicated to the Great Spirit. They are not the refuges of evil they're often been made out to be by the orthodox believer. A temple of light and truth, where you receive solid reassurance that there is life after physical death and that your loved ones do live on in the heavenly realms.

Marc is busy looking after other people who come over in similar circumstances to himself. He is able to take a peek now and again to see how you're getting on - and is hopeful that you'll become more optimistic yourself about the future.

Every blessing.
Lyn

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