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I'm so unhappy - will things change?
Dear Lyn
I've had a real rotten few years - I split with my husband - my children have chosen to stay with their dad and I can't have any more kids. To top it all the company I work for have moved me into a job that I'm just not suited to. I'm really quite sad all the time and I know this depression is all circumstancial. Will it ever lift? I feel so desperately unhappy. Please help. Jane
Dear Jane
You are entitled to feel depressed with everything that's happened to you. I can tell you that your children will be wanting to heal the rift with you as time goes on, and that occasional bright (undepressed) cards from you will help all round.
You must trust those who love you in the spirit world, including your guardian angel, and speak to your boss about a change of job. There is so much to be happy about in your life. Compare your situation with women who are trapped in loveless and/or abusive relationships, whose children are sick, and who are unable to work outside of their home commitments. Look at your health and the physical benefits you enjoy. Think about doing a bit of voluntary work for those less fortunate than yourself, you'll be surprised at how quickly you will make new friends and feel better in yourself. Go to a Spiritualist church where you will find an unconditional welcome and healing too if you want it. I'll send out my healing thoughts to you so that you feel a little better straight away. Every blessing.
Lyn