Health Centres - Eating disorders
What are 'eating disorders'?
The common eating disorders are:
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anorexia (often called 'anorexia nervosa')
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bulimia (often termed 'bulimia nervosa')
- Binge eating disorder.
In the first decade of the 21st century, they appear to be getting steadily commoner in Britain. But why do they occur? The reasons are complex, and they are connected with our rather curious and ambivalent attitude to food â¦
Mixed messages about food
At a medical conference in 2005, one of the speakers said that 'the majority of women have a slightly odd relationship with food'. Although this seems a rather sweeping statement, most of the females in the audience promptly nodded.
Certainly, many adult women have a 'love-hate' relationship with their food. Furthermore, a lot of them manage (quite unintentionally) to pass on mixed messages about food to their children.
Listen, for example, to two female friends lunching together. If they succumb to the delights of the dessert trolley one will almost certainly say to the other: 'I shouldn't be having this.' In other words, she is indulging her pleasure, her palate and her hunger, but she's punishing herself as she does so. Most probably, her friend will say something like: Oooh yes, I shouldn't be having this either â but isn't it lovely!'
Recently, we eavesdropped on a group of three women in a pub.
The first woman - Katherine - was telling her colleagues, Suzie and Caroline, that she'd had a tummy bug the previous weekend.
'It was awful' she said. 'I felt like death. Still...'
'Yes...' encouraged Suzie.
'Well - usual compensations...'
'I bet,' agreed Caroline. 'You look great, how much weight did you lose?
'Four pounds,' said Katrina, not even bothering to conceal the note of pride that crept into her voice.'
'Gosh. Fantastic. Four pounds...' Her two companions looked and sounded envious.
Let's face it, most women understand that conversation because deep down they subscribe to the view of the late Duchess of Windsor when she said: 'You can never be too thin or too rich.'
Even those women who know how dangerous this kind of thinking is, still cling to it. And it is that very type of thought - constantly, if unwittingly, being passed on to children - which has helped to increase the feelings of ambivalence about food among women in today's society.
Skinniness means success
We live in a very 'beautiful people' kind of world where television, magazines and newspapers continually bombard us with images of extremely slim people. This is undoubtedly a bad thing, because it makes women and girls feel deep down, that slimness equates with success.

