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I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl and have been with her for a year now. During this time, the relationship was absolutely fantastic and loved every minute we spent together. But up until a week ago, my girlfriend just decided not to talk to me. She ignores my texts and calls. When she does answer her phone (after making several calls to her), she accuses me of annoying her and just hangs up. This is so out of character as when we used to speak to each other, we would talk about everything and anything without any problems.

I really just dont understand this change in her. I know there is a problem with her, but its driving me so mad that she doesnt talk to me like she used to. My family and friends tell me to leave her, even though I dont want to do this. I have had a couple of bad relationships in the past, so I can understand what they are saying. I want to talk to her and find out what is going on with her, but how can I do this when she wont talk to me?

What should I do. Should I just give her one more chance and leave her to deal with her issues, or shall I end the relationship?

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Added: 24 April 2008 09:17
Peter Says says:
Sorry man the same happened to me,she's found someone else, move on. You find someone else then if you hear from her tell her you've found someone who answers your calls/texts.
Added: 27 March 2008 15:39
william says:
i have had this problem before so i know what ur going through just give her time the truth will eventually come out! how far is the distance away from her if u can get to her with out to much hassle then go and see her and talk to her about how ur feeling there is no point in getting ur self down and worrying about her if she is seeing some1 else. find out what happen so u can either fix it or move on mate thats my suggestion.
Added: 26 March 2008 22:03
pamsey says:
Become a Spurs fan she will soon come running back
Added: 25 March 2008 00:43
kurt says:
well im no expert but i think PRIMROSE has a point. really though its all down to how much you care for her, you`ve gotta' ask yourself though, its a long distance relationship, these kinda things are common. whatever you do try your best to find out the truth first.
Added: 24 March 2008 18:51
PRIMROSE says:
It sounds to me that her attentions are elsewhere.... And I`d add to that, she don`t seem to care, Forget her, and find a new love And let the sun shine again on you, from up above. X
Added: 21 March 2008 11:14
seranade her says:
get a guitar, climb on to her balcony with a red rose in your teeth and guitar in hand and sing her a song from your heart. make it a good song, a powerful and heart-felt show. works in the movies - just make sure you don't get done for stalking. otherwise, chalk it up to experience and learn from your mistakes - and don't take out the mistakes in this relationship on your next one.
Added: 19 March 2008 11:55
John says:
I'm afraid I agree with Empi,after being in a similar situation to you just a few months ago, she hasn't got the guts to tell you the relationship is finished & the distance between you has been to her advantage,you cannot make her talk to you so its probably best to forget it & move on.Good Luck
Added: 7 March 2008 12:35
Empi says:
Sorry mate. She has found someone else and she doesn't have either the social skills or the courage to tell you. Take a deep breath & move on.
Added: 3 March 2008 13:27
Susan says:
It looks like she's either met someone else or has just had enough of your relationship. If she won't talk on the phone, send her a letter. If she fails to respond, then I would suggest it's time for you to move on.

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