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I'm losing my girlfriend

I dont know what to do. My girlfriend says that she loves me but she doesnt want to go out with me. She says that were still best friends, but she feels that we dont have as much fun together because were just comfortable around eachother. I feel like we can work this out, but I dont know if shes willing to. After 2 years, shes so ready to move on, and I just cant let go of her. She means everything to me. I dont think I can be just friends with her without crying every time I see her, and think of how I will never hold her hand or kiss her cheek again. I will never have the fun I did in those two years.

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Added: 14 September 2008 16:00
Chris says:
Sorry, you have lost her. Not losing. She's gone. Dont try to get her back, it's not worth it & you would not be happy with her again, you would be scared. Give your self a bit of time to lick your wound's. Then get back out there and have some fun. Why are you so needy? You dont need anyone to make you feel complete, if you cant nip this needy thing in the bud, you are going to be one very unhappy person all your life. You have to love yourself before anyone else can, try being on your own for a while, i promise it works, go out be a guy, do what you want, when you want. take it from me there is nothing worse than a needy person, i married one, my family used to hum the tune "me & my shadow" . How old are you? in your teens it sounds like, i hope you are in your teens sunshine, we all go through it, its normal. I wish you well. I am female, 51. not a teen thank god. Go away with the lads to somewhere hot, you will be fine when you get home.
Added: 9 August 2008 02:02
Petra says:
You feel that way now but you know what in a few days time when you pull yourself together and get out there with your mates again on a lads night out. You will thank your girl for seeing what you didn't want to see, you were too comfortable set in your ways, predictable, old before your time, boring in fact. There are some people who hook up because they are comfy together. That's not love that's easy living. You carry on and on and on until one day you realize that you have absolutely nothing in common to talk about anymore because you are comfy. So what do you do? WALK OUT******DIVORCE****HOUSE****SOLICITORS****KIDS***
My friend you have had one of the most shortest escapes of your life and I for one think it time for a party. As for her saying that she wants to stay friends Forget it she just doesn't want to upset you any more as you are probably like a love sick puppy that she can't bear to see cry anymore. Get out there and see just what a near miss you have just had.
Added: 10 July 2008 23:48
KT says:
Some people seem not to be able to deal with long term relationships and expect the early fun and excitment to carry on, which it doesn't and think the relationship is failing. They will repeat this pattern until they finally reaslise that trust and the comfortable feelings are a development for the long term. Hope you work it out and good luck.

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