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Give up your seat

Give up your seat
Do you remember the good old days, when people on buses and trains would gladly offer their seat to an elderly or pregnant woman. Nowadays it's very rare for someone carrying bags of shopping or small children to be offered a seat on a crowded bus. Would you give up your seat for someone less able than yourself or do you see it as, "I've purchased my ticket, it's my seat"? As trains and buses become more packed, do you think we've lost the ability to be as caring as we used to be?

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Would you give up your seat on a bus or train for someone less able than yourself?




 
 

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Added: 31 March 2008 23:32
Raine says:
I would give up my seat and I do. I'm a mum and yes it would be nice but I don't expect it. This day and age everyone is so wrapped up in their own little worlds the compassion for others has gone right out the window. Not just for public transport but in life. What a sad selfish world we live in.
Added: 27 March 2008 11:51
Alan says:
The question is based on the term "Less Able" not for a female or a anyone who is older, so of course the answer has to be yes! I am disabled and when traveling by public transport I don't use seats for diabled as I always think other people are worse off than I am, so shame on you who voted NO.
Added: 27 March 2008 11:24
Theo says:
I cannot believe the poll results. More than 50% would give up their seats for someone less able?! So why do we see the exact opposite on tubes and buses in London everyday?
Added: 27 March 2008 10:15
SI says:
I agree with what Bob says, that there is something wrong with a society where everyone is out for themselves and I truly wish I could be more selfless but its very difficult when other people are so rude. I think it would be wonderful if everyone was prepared to give up their seat for someone more needy but those who do rarely get any appreciation or thanks for it. I realise one isn't meant to do good deeds for the thanks, it should be a reward in itself, but acknowledging someone when they have done something nice for you should be automatic in a polite society shouldn't it? I've lost count of the number of times I've held a door open for someone and they've just marched through without even glancing at me let alone saying thanks, as if I have nothing better to do than stand around relieving them of the stress of opening doors! I guess a stronger person than myself would carry on doing good in the hope that it might rub off on the younger generation but I just can't do it. People's selfishness drives me crazy and unfortunately makes me think " if they won't put themselves out to help me, why should I do it for them?" I know its a sorry state of affairs but I think more and more people feel this way and thats why its going to continue to get worse.
Added: 27 March 2008 08:32
Phil Clayton says:
At one time I would ALWAYS give up my seat to a lady. Problem now is that there are not many "ladies" and they did demand equality.
Added: 26 March 2008 20:11
Bob says:
Remember: "A society in which each and every one of its indivdual members pursue their own self interest is a society which would disintergrate in a short space of time" Some would say that we are nearly there.
Added: 26 March 2008 14:24
Jo says:
I agree that for a pregnant person I wouldn't give up my seat as it is their choice but for someone who has a disability or looks unable to stand for a long time then I will do. I have arthritis and hyper mobility (severe double jointedness which causes my joints to dislocate whenever they decide) and a disorder which causes me to faint when I stand for too long (I am 25) and get really evil looks off of people when I don't give up my seat on the train. I even explained to an old man once why I wouldn't give up my seat (I asked him if he was willing to catch me when my joints gave out or when I fainted) he laughed and virtually called me a liar saying "you're too young to have those problems" well I was born with them so obviously not!!
Added: 26 March 2008 13:12
SI says:
I travel on buses every day to and from work and I would give up my seat if a disabled or elderly person needed it. However, I don't see why I should put myself out for a pregnant woman. Pregnancy may be an uncomfortable state but lets face it, they chose to be pregnant so I don't see that as my problem. Nor do I feel I should immediately feel obliged to give up my seat for someone just because they are a bit older than me. If they appear frail or infirm then yes, no problem but if they are perfectly able-bodied then why should I? I spend 8 hours a day on my feet at work and its a welcome relief to sit down on the bus for the journey home. I'm certainly not shifting just to make room for someone's shopping!
Added: 25 March 2008 18:49
George says:
This discussion you have engendered is typical of the general disregard we have for each other today in every walk of life I am 80 later this year and notice day after day the attitude of people "i'm alright Jack" is more inevidence today than it was when the film was showing, particularly applies to motorists. We all seem to hate each other. When parking in Folkestone we have a road where parking is allowed for 1 hour only and every time one goes to park there you will find a car either not parked up to the stop line or parked with absolutely no thought for anyone coming along afterwards leaving a gap of 1-2 metres either end. This is the norm today, of-course I would give up my seat to a more unfortunate person but I'm afraid that as a country we are finished and we will never regain what we have lost.
Added: 25 March 2008 00:49
social coherence says:
nothing to loose if you respond to the needs sensibly

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